我认为男性在适应这种变化上有困难。她们越来越意识到妇女在工作领域的存在以及她们作为同胞的贡献。他们自己的身份受到了质疑，我们的身份也开始成长和发展。这种分裂很难稳定下来，因为所有相关的性别问题最终都浮出了水面，争论的焦点是，抚养孩子的女性是否能够“转变”为同样地抚养子女。这个故事可能以女人开始和结束。我们会一直把前人的榜样归到自己身上吗?或者，我们最终会打破我们对自己的束缚吗?有一段时间，个别的男人或女人将开始提高他的意识并首先选择他或她自己。不是以自我为中心的方式而是问自己一个问题"我现在需要什么才能和自己一致?“当女性和男性终于能够在任何时候对自己进行足够的锻炼，能够问自己这个问题时，这绝对不是一个关于性别的问题，而是一个关于自主的问题。”女性想要她们的自主权吗?是简单的出路，还是女人继续平庸的生活，走简单的出路，让这成为男人的世界，一种依赖和服从的状态?男人独立自主，不幸的是，女人认为自己的独立是自己挣来的。男人从一开始就相信这是他们的权利。在大多数情况下，女人会请求别人的允许，但这种情况永远不会发生。抛开一切社会偏见和家庭偏见，历史文化偏见只能是女性的选择。西蒙娜·德·波伏娃(Simone de Beauvoir)向我们展示了一个女人就是她自己，如果她愿意，她可以大胆做她自己。尽管这一想法不会吸引一些人，但如今女性正在竞选总统，并在我们的最高支持下担任重要职务，而西蒙妮的信息可能已深入人心。女性在未经允许的情况下接受了做自己。由于这种条件作用，男人正在与自己的条件作用和自己的身份问题作斗争。为了达到平衡需要时间和勇气。妇女争取和平、儿童权利、非暴力、平等教育和职业权利，在全世界团结一致，发表自己的观点。这是一首美丽的法国歌曲，暗示着女人是男人的未来。这句话很有道理。
I think that men are having trouble adjusting to this change. They are becoming more and more aware of women’s presence in the work field and their contribution as fellow citizens. Their own identity has been questioned and ours is beginning to grow and develop. This cleavage will be difficult to stabilize since all related gender problems have finally come to the surface, the debate is whether or not women that are raising their children can make the ‘shift’ to raising their sons and daughters alike. The story perhaps begins and ends with women. Are we going to keep attributing to ourselves the role models that went before us? Or are we finally going to break the bondage of what we have been made to think of ourselves? There has come a time when the individual man or woman will begin to raise his consciousness and choose him or herself first. Not in and egotistical way but to ask oneself the question ‘”What do I need for myself right now to be in agreement with myself?” When finally women and men have worked on themselves enough to be able at any moment to ask themselves that question then it is definitely not a question of gender but autonomy. Do women want their autonomy? Is the easy way out or women to continue a mediocre existence to take the easy way out and let this be a man’s world and a state of dependency and submission? Men take their independence and unfortunately women think or have been taught to think theirs is to be earned. Men believe it is their right from the beginning. Women ask permission for it and in most circumstances and it never comes. Leaving behind all the social prejudice and family prejudice and historical and cultural prejudice can only be the choice of women. Simone de Beauvoir showed us that a woman is herself and can dare to be herself if she so chooses. Although this idea will not appeal to some, women are running for presidential office these days and hold important functions within our highest auspices while Simone’s message has probably hit home. Women are accepting to be themselves without asking permission to do so. Men are battling with their own conditioning and their own identity problems due to this conditioning. In order to create a balance it will take time and courage. Women for peace, for children’s rights, for non-violence, for equal education and career rights have united all over the world to speak their piece. A beautiful French song that implies women as being men’s future. could hold a lot of truth in these words.